The big test for any relationship is always going to be the moving in together period. This is the period when the relationship steps up a gear and moves on to a much more permanent basis.
This moving in period can also test the relationship to the full and many have failed at or just after this time.
The reason for this is that whilst you may think you know your partner very, very well and know his or her little ins and outs you will never know what they are really like until you actually live with them. This loving caring man or this beautiful sexy woman that you have been dating for maybe two or three years has turned into this selfish disgusting person that you are finding hard to get on with let alone love.
The woman may feel that she is the only one who does any household chores and that she is constantly picking up after her man and the toilet seat is never down. He may feel that she is constantly moving his stuff and he finds it hard to find anything because it is always put away in its rightful place and not where you left it.
Well the honeymoon period of the relationship is well and truly over and you have a few decisions to make about where to go from here.
The thing is people are different and to truly live happily with another person you have use a bit of give and take and also you have to talk about your feeling. This is about the most important part about making a relationship work and is the reason why most fail in the long term. Talking to your partner about your feeling on a regular basis and not letting any bad feelings build up over time between you is the one area where a lot of couples go wrong and can lead to the failure of your relationship. You have invested a lot of time in this relationship and you don't want to fail at this stage do you?
Every relationship could do with a little help every now and again so get talking to each other and settle these little disputes before they become a much bigger problem. I mean, your partner is the same person you fell in love with all those months or even years ago and you still have a great future together don't you?
If you feel that you need some help in getting your relationship back on track there is a great guide that will tell you where you are going wrong and will help put right any bad feelings you may have about your partner and get the relationship on course for success now and in the future.
